#notpregnantjustfat

Que sera, sera Whatever will be, will be The future's not ours to see Que sera, sera - Doris Day One of the hardest parts of trying (unsuccessfully) for a baby is the constant waiting, wondering, day-dreaming and second guessing. It can be extremely difficult to just 'get on' with life when baby making is always at the back of your mind. Friends and family will offer wise words of advice during times like this 'It'll happen when the time is right' or 'What's for you won't pass you' and 'Que sera sera.' These people are all well meaning and the truth is that they just don't have any more answers than you do, so they dig deep for any and all clichés that they feel may be broadly appropriate for the situation.  To be fair, I often pull out many of these phrases when I am having a word with myself in a down moment.  I always tell myself that it will happen when the time is right and I just have to be patient in the m...